Sharleen as the Jie Jie

I hope Sharleen is doing well as the big sister. She has always behaved like a da jie in school, this role at home suits her well. She seems to have a love-hate relationship with her little sister. One one hand, she is very protective of Alyssa, sometimes helping me to 'look after' her when I'm busy, talking to her and sayang her. One the other hand, we also see her throwing tantrums and vying for attention from Alyssa. I hate it when I have to scold Sharleen for disturbing Alyssa at unappriopriate times like when she is sleeping, but she has to learn living with Alyssa. She probably doesn't feel good about it as I can see from her rebellious behaviour at times. Need to tread on this carefully to avoid resentment from Sharleen... Well, at least Sharleen hasn't asked me to give Alyssa away, which I have heard of happened. Thank you Sharleen!